In fact, she also disagrees with the traditional custom of this era where children are raised by wet nurses. When children are brought up on wet nurse's milk, they become less close to their own biological mothers. Just like Xiang Yun, although she deeply respects her martial artist husband, in her heart, it is the nanny who is the dearest person to her. Not just Xiang Yun, others feel the same; although Nangong Yi's nanny has been dead for many years, after Nangong Yi ascended the throne, he posthumously honored her as a first-rank national madam. Whenever he mentioned his nanny, his expression would show longing, much warmer than when he mentioned Empress Mo.
Therefore, she has already decided that when she has children in the future, she will nurse them herself, refusing to let her children consider someone else as their mother just to maintain her figure or lessen her own burdens!