They didn't talk about Ethan. Damien didn't bring it up, and neither did Lane. Although it kind of bothered him that his boyfriend didn't tell him about the nonsense Ethan had spouted… It was good, in a way. If the topic were brought up, Lane would have to respond to it somehow. Either by rejecting the idea of Damien being the top - which was bound to disappoint Damien, and would only confirm that all the things Ethan had said about Lane being a bad partner were right - or to dismiss the topic by saying 'maybe someday…' Which would ruin the surprise!
And Lane didn't want that. Since he was about to give Damien the honor of penetrating his ass, something that no one had ever done to him, not in his real body, and not when he was possessing other people… It had to be a special moment. It required a suitable occasion and proper preparations… And the element of surprise would surely strengthen the impact! Overall, it had to be an unforgettable experience!